Accepting the quiet bloom of your creativity with Jupiter in Cancer.

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Hello, beautiful, and a warm welcome to Accepting podcast for empaths. In this episode, we are coming to you from Marrakech in the quiet morning as the world begins to wake up.

If there's any background noise, that's life. So this episode is going to be all about accepting the quietness, the stillness of your creative bloom.

So get yourself cozy, grab yourself a cup of tea, and let's dive in.

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Hello, beautiful, and a warm welcome to this episode. I really wanted to record in the beautiful early hours before the hustle and bustle starts.

In Marrakech and the previous episodes, we've been talking about stillness and softness and sacred pores. This is my sacred pause after the creation of the Karras method.

It was so important for me to come away, fill my creative cup before continuing again. And this is what I would really like to feel into today.

So what we're going to be discovering is working with the gentle energy of the new moon, which will be the same day as this episode goes out, working with Jupiter in Cancer for a year, which is ideal for us empaths, the beautiful softness of Cancer, and how it's really important to listen to your own rhythm, not everybody else's. All right, so first of all, I would just like to say congratulations for showing up and listening and being with this episode.

And what I would really like you to do is if you can switch off any technology around you in terms of any bleeping on the phone, in terms of any bleeping on your computer, because this episode is a very, very soft episode. I know we're not outside under the tree of love. I'm in the beautiful energy of Morocco, so I really hope you can feel that.

And what I would really love you to feel as you listen and feel into this episode is what is my creative rhythm? And not expect answers straight away. Just ask the question and then allow those answers to come as and when.

Because as we are in Jupiter with Cancer, in Jupiter, this is the most beautiful soul softness, and it's for a year. And as empaths, we feel so much, we very much need to replenish ourselves before going into any kind of environments.

And with Jupiter and Cancer, what this really allows us to do is to be our true self. Cancer is the most sensitive of signs, and we are the most sensitive of people. So it works beautifully.

And I mentioned in a previous episode what this. What I was feeling into was it's allowing us to expand as Jupiter is all about expansion in a gentle and soft way.

So it's not about rushing into anything. We're still in the year of the wood snake, which is about taking measured decisions. And we are in this beautiful Cancerian energy in Jupiter.

And as I'm recording, we're in the, we're in Cancer in energy as well because we've just entered the sign of cancer. So this is all about softness and self care and being really, really kind to yourself. I know that' my mantra, be kind to yourself.

So with this episode it's going to be a little bit different because I'm going to speak to you about my experience with the Charis method and how it was really important for me to really nurture myself the whole way through.

Now if this resonates with you because there's been a creative project inside you that you've been going back to and going back to and going back to, or even if there's something just brand new that comes through as your listening to this, this is wonderful. And if there's nothing at all, please don't judge yourself either. Everything happens at exactly the right moment.

And one thing I would like to say is before we arrive, we choose our life contract and some of us have A to B and however you're going to get there and others have A to B and a very, very specific timeline how to do that. Now I'm in the the those options which is A to B on you go.

And we will always end up where we're designed to end up and experience all that we're supposed to experience to get us to a certain point.

So for me to be speaking to you From Marrakech at 7:45 I think it is now in the morning, there were certain experiences that were for me to experience, to grow from, to learn from, to go through, to not learn from, to go back through, through, to not learn from, to go back through and then finally go, oh, I get it. And then to move on.

So if you're in a situation that keeps repeating, repeating, repeating and you're feeling, well, I can't get out of this pattern, this is the time, my gorgeous, to step back and really, really nurture yourself. No judgments, just step back and really nurture yourself. Especially with Cancer and Jupiter.

Because what this allows us to do is be our true selves is be true, gorgeous, authentic empath selves. So with Cancer and Jupiter, as I mentioned, Jupiter is the planet of expansion. It's the planet of experiences. Yes, it's about abundance as well.

Yes, it's about money.

And if this is something that is very much resonating with you as well, that it's about money, this is time to feel into okay, am I actually happy in the situation that I'm in? Work wise, job wise. And I'm not saying just leave immediately saying start to have a gentle look into that.

If you're really, really happy where you are. Wonderful. Absolutely wonderful. Stay there my gorgeous.

If something feels slightly off with the environment you're in or with the people that you're working in, have a look at how you are showing up. First we always start with ourselves and then as you work on yourself in terms of well, how am I showing up? Am I misunderstood? Am I talked over?

There's various episodes of in terms of recognizing your unique voice which is another episode which I highly invite you to dive into in this cancerian energy. So this is coming up for somebody for some reason. So I'm saying it. So this is really feeding into your situation.

Whatever situation that be in terms of earning if you like.

So if that's work, if that's your own business, if that is stocks and shares, whatever it is for you, or if that's online commerce, whatever it is, is that really aligning with who you truly, truly are. So it's really, really important that we are aligning with our true essence, especially with Jupiter and Cancer.

Because if there's somewhere where we don't really feel aligned and we don't make any changes towards that, then that situation is very likely to exacerbate my gorgeous and I speak from experience. Years ago I had an accident. I was in an environment which was a working environment which was very, very harsh.

I actually even took crystals and a salt lamp into that environment and things had slightly started changing I thought. And I was in a situation where I kept just repeating patterns.

I was people pleasing, I was drinking alcohol and I was putting my myself in a situation where I was acting as if a company was my own and working all hours, burning myself out etc etc and partying as well and numbing myself to be in that situation and to fit in. So that's very dramatic. That's very drastic. I'm not saying necessarily that's where you are.

If any of that resonates then have a really good look at that my gorgeous. Because what happened with me and what happens with many empaths is we create being empaths, we're not born empaths.

Something happens in our childhood where we're either not accepted or there's a traumatic situation where we start adapting to everything to help us feel safe. So it's very important that as you're going through this, if you're completely new to this, that you're very, very, very gentle with yourself.

And this is why I created the Caris Method as well is because it' beginning of that you can absolutely work with it as well if you have been really working on yourself already because there's beautiful tools to continue. The Charis Method is baby steps that takes you through really getting to know yourself as well as the 22 pathways of self love.

The Embrace Yourself video series so this is where I would like to get to. So the Charis Method for me has been there for a while. My spiritual mentors, Kristos T Perry

ster Perry told me in, it was: 2020

And I think I was possibly the last person they saw as well in London.

And so I was with them and they were saying, you're going to be creating your healing modality and you're going to be teaching others healing modality. When I feel into this, they have been preparing me for this. They knew this was coming. Absolutely knew this was coming.

for me, what happened was in: 2019

gan and I went through all of: 2020

They're still available and they're amazing on Vimeo. And so what happened was I started really focusing and concentrating and devoting myself to my spiritual teachings and knowledge and learning.

And that brought myself to start really aligning with my true essence to really feeling into. Okay, so yes, I had this accident.

I still didn't really know who I was because I kept trying to go back to the old person that I had been pretending to be. And it was very interesting that as I started really devoting myself, it was more and more acceptable for me and my system to move on.

So this is why I created the Karras method. Because when we are in sudden changes, our brains don't like change. The limbic brain was designed for survival of the fittest.

The the flights and the freeze mode. When we were cavemen, so cave people. So when there's any kind of change, when we were cave people, that signified danger.

would play dead. And then in: 2013

So when we're in a situation where things are starting to change and we're in an environment where people don't necessarily accept who we truly are because we haven't known who we truly are, then there's going to be some pushback. There very likely going to be some pushback. So it's so important that we have that structure in place.

And even though absolutely I have my incredible mentors, I didn't know what was going on. I didn't realize that there was this huge change going on energetically, et cetera. Slow forth with me. Because I had my accident. I left Barcelona.

I moved in with my family to recover. I was fired from the job that I was in.

The physiotherapy that they were trying to give me was wrong because they hadn't diagnosed me properly from my accident. And I was also in the middle of a refurb of an apartment. And I had, unbeknownst to me, I had post traumatic stress disorder.

And when I moved to Andalucia to be with my family, to recover finally, because I was doing the good girl and staying in Barcelona so I could have this physiotherapy when the best thing for me would have been to leave and to go somewhere where people could help me because I couldn't move. It was a beautiful doctor who said to me, I think you have central sensitivity syndrome. And I had absolutely no idea what this was.

And it's a mixture of fibromyalgia, it's a mixture of chronic fatigue syndrome. It's a mixture of so many things. I do not want to put a label on myself or others. Basically, my body was saying no.

My body, my whole system was saying, I need time to catch up with this. Because when we're going through any dramatic spiritual changes, our body needs time to align with that.

So I now realize that what was happening was okay. I had my dramatic bump, my. My soul type. Brilliant, great, hurrah. We're getting her, getting her aligned. So I had the dramatic bump on, on.

On my backside. Quite literally, I was misdiagnosed. I didn't go to the hospital for a week because I couldn't see any bruising. They misdiagnosed me.

They didn't realize I had retrodisthesis and slipped discs and various other things going on.

And so what that then catapulted that into was me trying to go back to work, me being very unwell at work and then them consequently trying to find something to fire me, which then ended up with lawyers, etc, so forth and because it wasn't fair. So lots and lots was happening there because I didn't listen. So the reason I'm telling you all this is because I didn't listen.

Had I listened to this little inkling to start with, saying something doesn't feel right in this work environment, I feel, I don't feel like that person told me the truth. And my manager's definitely not telling me the truth. Had I listened to that at the very beginning, I would have left.

I would not have been there for the amount of time I was there. I would have trusted the universe and I would let would have left.

I would have trusted my inner self, I would have trusted my inner voice and I would have left because I was trying to fit in, because I was trying to be in this environment that to me on the outside had looked wonderful and glamorous and this was where I was supposed to be because I had told myself that I need to get a proper job rather than exploring all the creativity that was pouring out of me as I arrived in Barcelona. That is what happened for me. And I'm telling you this because it's really important that we're honest with ourselves.

And I wasn't honest with myself at all. I wasn't remotely honest with myself. And it's only as I reflect now I realize all my blessings in disguise.

So I'm not saying you're going to end up having an accident. Absolutely not. All I'm saying is just have a little look at where your situation is at the moment and ask yourself this is a really simple question.

And I've had this numerous times on a yoga teabag. And it was after my spiritual mentor Kristos T Perry said, it's easy. Are you happy or are you not happy? Really simple.

So ask yourself that with relationships. Ask yourself that with relationships. Ask yourself that with work situations. Ask yourself that that with your creativity.

Ask yourself in whatever environment feels right for you. Ask yourself that where wherever your your income is coming through. Ask yourself that wherever you're living.

And it doesn't mean you have to jump into dramatic changes, just means you're acknowledging that there is something that feels like a change will help. And it doesn't have to be dramatic. It could be just shifting your mindset slightly, my lovely. It could be changing a limiting belief. And we're not.

We don't get rid of belie, we change them.

Because it's really important that when we go through anything, if we're going to change something, we're not leaving a gaping big hole because all of our anxieties, all of our old patterns can fill that hole up. All right, so what I would really, really invite you to do for this time, as this is going out, it will be the new moon.

So with the new moon, it's all about new beginnings.

And instead of jumping into start feeling and making into measure decisions and with the new moon, just feed into what works for me, what really, really, really works for me. And we're not going to go into a great big list of what doesn't work. We're going to be in the energy of what really works.

And I'm inviting more of that in. It could be really simple. It doesn't have to be a dramatic what really works for me.

It could be what really works for me is my morning routine of having my celery juice. What really works for me is when I'm really kind to my body and I really nourish and nur, nurture. I feel so much better. More of that, please.

Doesn't have to be huge, great big dramatic steps. Just noticing where in your life when you're kind to yourself, that really works and inviting that in.

Because Jupiter in Cancer is allowing us to expand that. And you may be very, very surprised at what happens. It's not about taking a great big leap now. It's just gently feeling into what works for me.

So I would really invite you to have a look into that. And the next episode, we're going to be back under the tree of love.

I just really wish to feel into the energy because being in Marrakesh, what works for me is taking myself away after a huge amount of work. Because the charisma that has been in me, I've been working with it for years and years and years. And the Charis method is my essence.

The Charis method is me. So for bringing that out into the world has been huge. You know, there were patterns of, well, who's going to listen to this? Who's going to want this?

How's this going to help anybody? And I remember what Foster Perry, another one of my incredible mentors, said to me and Said actually in.

It was actually in a workshop where we were all in the group together and we had a Q and A afterwards. And he was talking about. He was teaching us a modality. And one of the spirits that he was working with said, you need this more than your doubt.

And this really stuck with me. The Charis Method is not about me. The Charis Method is about me helping others.

The Charis Method is about you realizing, actually I do have a support system that can help me make these changes. I didn't have have that support system. I was trial and error all the way, all the way, all the way.

Until I finally realized, well, this works, this works, this works. And so what I've created is something that as you're going through any kind of changes, it can be huge, it can be minimal.

We're all going through changes. I'm going through the perimenopause.

And what this really made me realize is everything that had been working for me and to put it all together because I love visualization. I love simplifying things. I love energetic processes.

So what was originally with the gorgeous lady who got in touch with me and said, I would really love to create your course was supposed to be 10 videos, is 25. There's 25 videos there now. And it's beautiful. And I'm working with it every day now as well because it's still helping me.

And now it's in a structured form. It means I can go back through. And instead of going, oh yeah, that works for me, I better do that actually. That works for me.

And trying and feeling into. It's all there. I just wake up in the morning and I go through everything that works for me. So that's why I created it.

How I created it was with trust.

How I created it was just waking up in the morning, being under the tree of love, outside side, working with the beautiful spirits, working with the fae, working with Hecate, working with all the beautiful divine feminine goddesses. And trust, that's how it came out, was trust in myself. And it was trust in un of universe.

So I would really, really invite you in this beautiful, beautiful energy that we're in. The new moon coming up Jupiter in Cancer. Trust you yourself, what works for you and really start expanding that. All right.

So thank you so much for listening and tuning in to this episode. We will be back under the Tree of Love next week. If you would like to join the Caris Method. The gates are open. They open on the 22nd of June.

I was divinely guided for the 22nd of June. Please dive in if your soul is saying to you yes, this is for me, please listen to that.

There is also the 22 pathways to self love which is another beautiful process. Or just carry on listening to the podcast my lovely. You can also get in touch with me in August I am opening up private sessions again.

So August they will be open. If you would like to have private sessions as well.

If you would like to have a look at the the information about that I will pop the link there and you have that all. So thank you so much for listening and tuning in my gorgeous.

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Thank you.

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Here is to your self acceptance, Here is to your self empowerment and here is to aligning to exactly who you were born to be. So much love.

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